
Last week (May 2nd-6th) was National Teacher Appreciation Week. I don’t know about you, but when I think back to the teachers I’ve had, I feel blessed. In all honesty, I can only remember one teacher who really should have chosen a different profession—the rest were quite wonderful. Of course, there were a few who really excelled and even all these years later, I smile when I think of those two.
When I found out that I had been assigned to Mr. Morris’ 6th grade class, I wasn’t happy. There were three 6th grade teachers that year, and both of the others were young, hip, and fun. Mr. Morris was short, extremely overweight, and wore the worst toupee I’d ever seen.
On the first day of class, Mr. Morris wrote the following questions across the top of the chalkboard:
- Where are you going?
- How will you get there?
- How will you know you’ve arrived?
The questions remained there all throughout the year, and on occasion, he would call on someone in the class to answer them. There were some of the answers you’d expect from twelve-year-old kids. Smart-ass boys would say things like, “The bathroom. I’ll walk down the hall and turn right. I’ll see toilets.”
Mr. Morris never once told anyone that their answers were wrong, but he encouraged us to dig deep. Even at that age, he wanted us to live mindfully. I grew to admire him enormously.
On the last day of school, I stayed for a few minutes after all of the other kids had gone. I asked Mr. Morris how he would answer his own questions. He smiled and told me that he had been asking himself the questions all throughout his life and that his answers had changed many times. “Right now, Beth,” he said, “the answer to the last question would be that I would have a student who gave my questions genuine thought and who I’ve clearly reached. And you just provided me with that.”
I’m so glad I didn’t get one of the cute teachers.
I met my other favorite teacher in my freshman year of high school. I had pretty much always been a no-effort straight-A student, but the first essay I wrote in Mr. Moonier’s freshman English class came back to me with a big red "C" at the top of it. Sure that it was a mistake (or a joke), I approached the teacher, who assured me that it was the grade I'd earned.
He told me that he'd seen my transcript and knew that I'd just sort of been phoning it in. He said that the paper might have earned an A for another student, but since he knew full well that I hadn't really put much effort into it, he thought a C was perfectly fair. He added that if I wanted an A in his class, I'd have to earn it.
I was furious.
I worked harder in that class than I ever had before, and I learned a lot--both academically and more importantly, I realized that it wasn't okay to just slide. I earned that A--the first one that I'd ever felt really great about--and then over the next few years, I used many of my electives to take every single class that he taught.
Those men embodied all that teachers should be. Lucky me.
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Check this out…definitely worth the few minutes it takes.
You wouldn’t like it if someone stole your words, so please don’t steal the work of photographers and graphic artists to provide images for your blog. Today’s image courtesy of Morgue File, which offers lots of wonderful, free images for public use.
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What a great tribute you are!
ReplyDeleteBut......what's wrong with how the boys answered? I would have said the same thing!
ReplyDeleteWhat an inspiring post, Beth! Thanks for sharing about your remarkable teachers. Sounds like they had an impact on you and that's a mark of a wonderful teacher.
ReplyDeleteIt is amazing the impact that one person can have. Thank goodness for those who CHOOSE to teach. There is no glamor and certainly not much pay, but they truly can change the world....one mind at a time.
ReplyDeleteTeachers are so underrated. Of course, having a cute teacher wasn't a bad thing. I had an algebra teacher my freshman year of high school that looked like a cross between Bill Paxton and Garth Brooks. I was deeply smitten LOL
ReplyDelete@Mike: Thank you! And you are such a...boy! ;O)
ReplyDelete@Cathy: I've heard so many people complain about public schools, but my experience was wonderful.
@Sunshine: Exactly! Teachers--great teachers--make a huge difference!
@Amy: I had a really hot math teacher, too. :O)
I loved this Beth. If you see either of those teachers again, thank them from me. They obviously helped making you into the person I have come to know and love. The video is great also!
ReplyDeleteWow, I envy you. I always wanted teachers like that, but never got any. I always wanted an English teacher like in Dead Poets Society but mine were all universally awful. My sophomore English teacher would tell us we were all going to fail in life because we didn't answer her questions. (I was one of those shy girls who would rather die than call attention to myself in class.) My senior year English teacher repeatedly called us all culturally illiterate for not knowing about obscure things like Picasso's Guernica. (I know about it now because she told us out of the blue one day that in the following day's class we would be quizzed on our knowledge of Guernica which she had never mentioned before.) Sigh. I ended up making the library my teacher. I learned a lot just from reading.
ReplyDeleteI love Mr. Morris's questions.
@Gary: I did let Mr. Moonier know how much I appreciated all that he gave. He's retired now, but when I contacted him, he was still teaching at my high school. I tried to find Mr. Morris, but had no luck. I was in 6th grade, um, quite a while ago, so he would be an old man now, if he's still with us. I'm thinking of calling my old elementary school to see if they might know where he is and if they'd be willing to get a message to him. Can't hurt to try, right?
ReplyDelete@Sarah: What a shame! It's a good thing that you were self-motivated to learn.
My oldest daughter had one teacher in high school who told all the kids in her class that they were destined for jobs where they'd ask everyone they encountered, "Do you want fries with that?" I called her up to ask if she had actually said such a thing to a bunch of fifteen-year-old kids. She admitted that she had, and then tried to explain to me how it wasn't her fault that she'd given up on teaching and was content just to sit at the big desk at the front of the room.
I told her that she could either begin teaching my daughter's class or I would contact the admin office. She got it together, but geez, how ridiculous!
I hope Mr. Morris gets to read this.
ReplyDelete@Cyndi: I tried calling my elementary school earlier today to see if they keep in touch with past teachers, but they don't. I would love to let Mr. Morris know just how influential he was.
ReplyDeleteThanks for giving some love to teachers. We really need to hear it these days.
ReplyDeleteThe profession of teaching doesn't get nearly as much respect as it deserves. Good teachers change lives. :O)
DeleteExcellent post. I think it is inspiring when we have that one or possibly two teachers that make us think outside the box and help us to stretch our wings into unchartered territory. I hope you are finally able to track down Mr. Morris.
ReplyDeleteCheers, Jenn
I've been trying again. So far no luck. :O(
DeletePretty amazing that he challenged you to excel! I often worry that my daughter would get a teacher that would just let her slide by on A's but I can honestly say that I think she did earn every single one. She learned something this year whether she wants to admit it or not. I think the best teachers are the ones that somehow find the best in you and bring it out. You may have always been good, but with that teacher you really shine. Great post!
ReplyDeleteKathy
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I agree with you Kathy--really good teachers push. Some kids have a hard time just keeping up with the basics, and their path should be honored and supported. For other kids, the curriculum doesn't provide much of a challenge and the A's come easily. Those kids need their paths honored and supported, too, even when that means they get the occasional kick in the behind. ;O)
DeleteThis was wonderful...absolutely wonderful and the clip at the end made me want to stand up and cheer!
ReplyDeleteThank you. Isn't that guy great?!?!
DeleteI don't think I ever had that kind of teacher..that, or I never gave them a chance to show it. But it is nice to read about those that did.
ReplyDeleteI think I was very lucky, and you're right, being open to accepting what they offered made a great deal of difference, too.
DeleteMy 8th grade teacher was like your Mr. Morris. About 15 years ago, I searched county records for his address, then I sent a thank you card with a letter telling him how he impacted my life. He wrote back and told me how pleased that I had written to him because in his old age, he wondered if he really did any good. He invited me to visit him next time I was in my hometown, but that visit never came until after his death. I am so glad that I went the extra step to thank him.
ReplyDeleteI love that you got in touch with him, Darlene!
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